Can you keep a secret? We are not really on a break. In fact, we still tried this month.
Everyone always tells us, when you stop trying, that's when it will happen. Well, being lesbians, that isn't possible for us. So in our attempt to stop trying I made a note that we are on a break. During this 'break' I took my temp maybe 3 times, I didn't pee on sticks, I didn't bother with the charts, and I stopped taking my normal cycle pills (prenatal and baby asprin). I just didn't think about it - actually. This removed the stress of telling everyone where we are in our cycle, how it's going, when we're going to insem... etc. I didn't realize that part of ttc was stressful until I didn't have to do it.
Then the weirdest thing happened - I ovulated 3 days earlier than normal! I noticed tons of CM while at work one day and decided to POAS right away - sure enough, it was positive!
I called our donor and because my ovulation fell on a friday, we booked a hotel room. We met with our donor that night and again the next day.
I'm treating the tww just as I did the beginning of my cycle with the exception of a prenatal vitamin (I started taking that everyday). I'm not even charting my temps - I stopped doing this after my third temp which was before I ovulated. I'm just taking it easy and trying my best to forget about it. Anytime a pregnancy thought enters my mind - I will push it out and think of something else. Like a constant meditation - breathe in, breathe out.
I'm not sure when my period is due to start but I think I'll be safe to test sometime around the 27th. I think I'm about 5 dpo today. We'll see if this works.