Well I have finally got a plan in place. I am currently on cycle 10. I am hoping that this is it for me.However, if it is not I have already made some plans to deal with whatever issues that I may have. Right now I am either 8DPO or 5DPO. I was virtually certain that I ovulated on or around Thursday of last week so I AI'd (high open cervix EWCM). But I got even more EWCM on Sunday so I AI'd that night as well. EWCM has gotten to be a much more rare phenomena in my life. I didn't use Clomid because I fully intended to sit out this cycle.
So I have made an appointment to see a new OB/GYN  next month about getting a HSG. Also he will be probly changing my clomid to 3-7 like he has done for my friends.One thing is for sure I am going to try my hardest to get Pg this year. I figure if I give up now all of these cycles and thousands of dollars will have been wasted. In the beginning I was sure that I would get and stay pg within three cycles .I was shattered each and every time it was -. Then I thought surely I would be pregnant by 6 cycles. My grief was almost unbearable when it was -. Then the past couple cycles has been  disheartening and compleate indifferance. I hated to see the neg test because it made  me feel so old and defective. But now with this cycle and any more that I may have ,I just think about all the women on here that have tried several dozen IUIs and IVF . I feel as though I finally have a home among them and it is helping to keep my focus.
My new motto:
Its not how many times you fall off the bike, its how many times you get back on.